Discipline at Home
Oftentimes we get parents bringing their kids to martial arts because they want them to learn discipline. They have trouble getting them to do their homework, have good behavior, and want to do anything besides play video games all day. We get it! We live in a world where kids are oversaturated with things to do and short attention spans. Martial arts training can definitely help with this problem—but it’s a two way street.
Discipline in Taekwondo:
Students are taught from their first day that discipline means controlling your actions. One way they do that is by attending class. In order to achieve their goals, they have to show up and put in the work. The only way to advance in rank, to get better, and to become a champion is to show consistency in their practice. This means coming to class and giving their best effort. They learn forms which teaches them control over their bodies—a form of discipline.
They are taught to say yes sir and yes ma’am and to respect others. The control over their voices and thinking before they speak is a form of discipline. By learning to speak up, they build their confidence in their voices and bodies and find discipline over their thoughts as well. This helps control their actions on a daily basis.
When they act out in class or their parents tell their instructors of their bad behavior at home, they are disciplined in class. That could mean losing their belt rank, sitting out of fun activities, or getting a stern talking to. Whatever the case may be, by learning that losing control of their actions is unacceptable in taekwondo—that carries over to everyday life.
Discipline Outside of Taekwondo:
However, as stated in the beginning, discipline is a two way street. While martial arts instructors work tirelessly to teach kids discipline and controlling their actions, we are not with them during the rest of their day. It then falls on the duty of the parents to reinforce those lessons at home.
Kids will have days or even periods where they will not want to come to class. It’s much easier for them to stay home and play video games than to challenge their mind and body by learning new things. But those moments are most important for parents to work with instructors reinforcing the values that good things are earned and not given.
If they are acting out, it again comes on parents to work with instructors to reinforce good behavior at home and at the dojang. As a team, they can make an impact on getting the student to not let any unwanted behavior go unchecked.
We love the parents that work hand in hand with our instructors at Mueller’s Martial Arts to make sure that students are showing discipline in all areas of their life! Remember that getting them to class and reinforcing lessons at home will make all the difference in the world!